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Sleeping Lady Mountain Retreat

Mountains beyond mountains:
A pristine day at Sleeping
Lady Mountain Retreat

Two years ago, Dorothy Randall left her high-stress job as a meeting planner for Schering-Plough in Kenilworth, N.J., to create a space for her peers to get away. She opened Retreat Art Omi in Ghent, N.Y., a small nonprofit retreat center that hosts meetings for groups of people who need to get out from under the gun. 
    “Everyone who drives up the hill says suddenly all of the tension is gone,” Randall notes.
    Hundreds of simple, peaceful centers promise similar solace. What’s more, companies without big meeting budgets will have no trouble affording the low-tech, no-frills serenity such properties offer.
    “If you want the safe bet located just off a main artery, a retreat center might not be for your group,” says Dawna Foreman, co-founder of All About Retreats, a website that lists retreat centers throughout the United States.
    She adds, “If, on the other hand, you really want an environment that is out of the box and many mental miles from the lights and sounds of the city, a retreat might be just the right thing.”

What to expect
A retreat center is a dedicated meeting venue in a natural setting. If it’s not hours from a city, it should at least lack the sounds of cars buzzing by on highways. And, unlike conference centers, which might welcome leisure business to fill empty rooms, retreat centers seldom are available for individual travelers. Some other important criteria most retreat centers share:
    Purposely small. Retreat centers vary in size, but most have a modest number of guest accommodations on a large plot of land. Often, a meeting group will rent out the whole facility, though some centers host multiple groups at once.
    Low-tech. At most properties, rooms don’t have televisions or telephones. At a proper conference retreat facility, A/V equipment and a business center with Internet access will be available.
     Serious about food. It might seem counterintuitive, but often, the meals are gourmet, organic, healthy and extremely inexpensive. Almost without exception, food is served buffet-style, which makes it easy to accommodate special diets.
    “The food is the most important thing for our guests,” says Randall. “You feed them well and they think you’re wonderful.”
    Extremely affordable. Room prices for the most basic of centers start at about $20 per night. The most expensive rarely crawl above $100, and complete meeting packages (including all meals and meeting facilities) usually are less than $200 per person, per day, especially for double and triple occupancy. Importantly, you get what you pay for, and most centers don’t hide costs or add gratuities. Everything is laid out clearly at the start; rarely are there surprises in the final bill.
    For example, at Colombiere Conference Center in Clarkston, Mich., a complete meeting package, including accommodations, F&B and meeting space, starts at $49. A daylong meeting with lunch costs just $16 per person.
    The prices are low because there’s so little overhead. At Retreat Art Omi, where the meeting package costs $135, “I don’t have room service, I don’t have swimming pools, and I don’t have a golf course,” says Randall. “What I have are very well-appointed, simple rooms where people come to get away from the world.”

Retreat Art Omi


Morning view:
A simple, elegant room at
Retreat Art Omi in Ghent, N.Y.

How to find one
Because retreat centers don’t carry brand names and can’t afford heavy advertising, it might be difficult to find the right one. “Every center is so unique, so the standards are nonexistent in a way,” says Dawna Foreman. “If a place has been in business for a while, serving groups, that’s a plus.” Other tips to consider: 
    Search the web. Two trustworthy paid listings are at www.allaboutretreats.com and www.retreatsonline.com. All About Retreats maps out properties by region and screens out those that don’t measure up. Retreats Online focuses mainly on Canadian facilities but includes some U.S. retreats, too. It has separate pages specifically for business retreats and those with meeting space. A third site, www.spiritsite.com/centers, lists more than 100 centers for spiritual and religious retreats.
    Also look at the individual retreat center’s website, advises Randall. The quality of the site often will correlate with the quality of the property. “If they have a website, you can be pretty sure they’re not in a farmhouse somewhere,” Randall says.
    Stay local. There’s no reason to put attendees on a plane when retreat centers of every kind can be found all over the country. Choose one within a few hours’ drive; after all, silence nearby feels as good as silence anywhere.
    Get references. It might seem obvious, but especially with retreat centers, ask for two or three references from groups similar to your own. Talking with peers who have been there can mean just as much as all the site inspecting in the world.
    Document your needs. Before heading out for a site inspection (which is utterly essential in the unregulated industry of retreats), make a thorough list of everything the meeting will require, and make sure the venue can accommodate those needs. Centers that specialize in conferences should have most of the basics, but it’s always wise to check.
    Among items worth asking about:
    " Digital projector and screen
    " Internet access
    " Ropes course
    " Heat and air conditioning
    " Single-occupancy rooms
    " Comfortable beds
    " Private bathrooms
    " Telephones in the rooms
    Test for comfort. When inspecting the center, treat the accommodations as though they’re an apartment you’re planning to rent. Turn the knobs on the faucets and lie down on the beds. Most centers are modern and comfortable, but be careful to avoid the few that are too Spartan for city dwellers.
    Consider religious affiliations. Be aware that some centers, though amenable to secular retreats, are run by religious organizations and might not allow alcohol on the premises. These centers also might enforce quiet after a certain hour, which would preclude late-night parties. In addition, notes Foreman, religious iconography at some centers could discomfort some. Keep in mind that the content of the meeting should not clash with the religion’s credos.
    Religious retreat centers do have their benefits, most notably in terms of cost. For instance, at Shady Lakes Ranch, a retreat center with a religious bent in Cleburne, Texas, nightly prices for nonprofits and church groups start at $24 per night, and meals are $21 per day. Prices for corporations are higher but still quite reasonable.
    Taste the food. Find out if dietary needs are accommodated, such as low-carb, gluten-free, vegan or kosher. If you want to bring in a caterer for a special meal, it won’t be frowned upon, but ask if the caterer can use the center’s kitchen for prep work; often the answer is no.

Kennolyn Conference Center


Sunshine and shadow:
Overlooking the courtyard at
the Kennolyn Conference Center

Planning the visit
Some retreat centers are so like traditional conference centers that planning will be a snap. Purchase a complete meeting package and work out the itinerary, then focus your energies on meeting content. 
    However, logistics can be trickier at centers that will appeal to the lowest-budget meetings. These venues might not have adequate A/V, and you might need to hire local suppliers for any activities beyond volleyball and hiking. Most properties, however, will be flexible if outside equipment or personnel need to be brought in.
    Beyond meeting rooms. Finding enough meeting space at the most rustic of retreats can take some creativity. Indoor and outdoor areas that can double as meeting spaces might not have conveniences like projection screens or climate control. Yet, unique settings can enhance the experience; it might even be fun to brainstorm in a barn or along a scenic riverbank.
    Meal planning. The F&B component at any retreat center will be simplified due to limited choices. At the Sleeping Lady Mountain Retreat in Leavenworth, Wash., for example, the chef prepares whatever inspires him, based on available ingredients, and customizes only for special requests.
An off-site meal might be arranged, perhaps at a restaurant in town, if the group wants a change of scenery or menu. Then again, groups rarely take a night off at Kennolyn Conference Center in Soquel, Calif., even though the place is five minutes from Santa Cruz. “Once you get up here, you don’t want to leave,” says April Estrada, meeting and retreat sales manager.
    Prepping the group. “I’ve only seen one group go south here in the entire time I’ve been here,” says Sarah Reynolds, director of sales and marketing for Sleeping Lady Mountain Retreat. “The attendees came in suits and high heels, as though they were going to be in a downtown mega-hotel.”
    Had the meeting planner emphasized to attendees that the conference would be held in a rustic setting, Reynolds explains, everyone would have been prepared for the retreat. Especially if a retreat represents a change of pace for a meeting, attendees should be told what to expect and what to pack.